Sneak Peek - June's Roman Toga Party Whaaaat??


Topics included in this email below are:

  • SNEAK PEEK of Cherry Noir Bacchanalia - a Roman Toga Party
  • April's Cherry Noir Fishnet Friday - Tickets Half Gone
  • Hiring for Ambassadors of Love
  • First PowerPoint Presentations in for Wed, May 21st PowerPoint Party
  • Mistress Zeneca's Playtime Munch for May - Bringing May Flowers

Cherry Noir Bacchanalia - Now, what is a Bacchanalia?

A Bacchanalia is a revelry. Its a party dedicated to and in the spirit of the God Dionysus, the god of wine and merriment. Back in the day, these parties were orgies and drunken debauchery that lasted days. We're talking the PARTY of PARTIES. What we're doing is bringing a little bit of that spirit to Cherry Noir.

The entire place will be adorned with a style befitting a life of luxury in the Roman Empire. We're going to hang white fabric, grapevines, grapes, and Roman/Greek style touches throughout the venue.

Togas are encouraged, but it is not a dress code. If you want to dress in theme, there are a lot of options. You can wear a Spartan lion cloth like the hunks from 300, a simple tunic of a lowly slave, a gladiator, an emperor's laurel wreath, a gown of a Goddess or an Egyptian Queen. Elaborate togas or just throwing a bedsheet around yourself is all OK too.

But here's the BEST PART....

THERE WILL BE A LIVE PAINTER THERE!!! Yes, there will be the equivalent to an ancient photographer at the party. Basically, he will be painting a 4ft x 2ft painting of the entire party all three days!

It'll be an impressionistic painting. He won't be painting people individually, so you won't be able to pick yourself out of the painting. It's more like he's putting elements of people together in order to create a good composition. Such as - that dress with a different head in a pose from another person, etc. It's a feeling of the party rather than the exact moment.

You will be able to see the painting be brought to life, hour by hour, day by day. Pictures from his perspective will be taken every 20 minutes for 3 days. At the end of the event, he'll review all the pictures to pick just the right elements to add into the painting. All the digital pictures will be destroyed after the project is over. The painting itself will then be turned into a print for sale, which pays the artist for his artistic expression. It's something so UNIQUE to bring to our event.

More details will be announced when tickets open after Cherry Noir Fishnet Friday.


Tickets Half Gone for April's Cherry Noir Fishnet Friday

Cherry Noir Fishnet Friday is starting to heat up! We've just tested out our R&B sex beat soundtrack and it sounds great. I've thrown in a few 70s classics just for the hell of it too. There are selections from Usher, TLC, A$AP Rocky, Childish Gambino, Beyonce, Missy Elliot, Mary J. Blige, CAPYAC, Aaliyah, Chris Brown, TGT, Sade, and more. Take a listen: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00XyVTvWKgvUqAeBoQRAZV?si=Xfr3iGe4S8yWNVnyVSWRzw

The Thursday party right now seems to be super light in attendees. I know everyone wants the Fishnet Friday, and tickets for Thursday probably won't start selling until that is sold out. HOWEVER, if the party end up being a super small gathering, then I'm breaking out the Twister, Air Twister, Cards Against Humanity, and any super sexy or super touchy games that I can find. Maybe we'll do a massage share. There's a lot of fun options for a small group to get in on that you can't reasonably do with a large crowd.

I'm also reducing the price on Thursday since I won't be getting a teacher for this one. I'm passing the savings onto you. (For the people who bought a full price ticket, you will be getting a refund of the difference when they arrive to the venue.)

Thursday, April 24th - Cherry Noir Thrilling Thursday - No dress code at this one - REDUCED PRICE!!

Party is 7pm-Midnight - $36 each person (VIPs can still use their personal code for $10 off) - No class at this event to bring the ticket price down. No dress code for this party.
Official Ticketing page here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/elegantlykinky/1600801
Fetlife event post: https://fetlife.com/events/1719886

Friday, April 25th - Cherry Noir Fishnet Friday - a Party with a DRESS CODE - MUST wear Fishnet or Wear Nothing at All

Party is 8pm-1am - $42 each person (VIPs can use their personal code for $10 off) - Fireplay class at 9pm or so by Fire Expert J Dominus, who will teach fire safety and some super cool fire techniques. This party has a DRESS CODE. You MUST wear something fishnet or wear nothing at all. Lace, mesh, tulle, and other fabrics that kind of look like fishnet are also acceptable. You can get something fishnet-like in a shirt, panty, gloves, stockings, arm sleeves, etc. If you're not wearing something net-like then you GO NUDE.
Official Ticketing page here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/elegantlykinky/1611986
Fetlife event post: https://fetlife.com/events/1712459

If you're coming to the party on either night (or both nights) and want to do a scene that involves special equipment or play space, just let us know.


We're Hiring for Ambassadors of Love

Yes, it's a paid gig (most of the time). If you're experienced in BDSM and have a desire to join our crew, reach out. Being an Ambassador of Love is part Dungeon Monitor and part social butterfly. To get more information, contact us on Fetlife - ElegantlyKinky


First PowerPoint Topics are here for Wed, May 21st PowerPoint Party

Right now its seems that people are starting to get their presentations together. We currently have:

  • Astrophotography - Learn about taking pictures of the stars
  • AI Tools - Learn about some business AI systems that could help with your data
  • Convent and Nun Porn Through History - Focusing on the very old depictions of nuns in convents and what scandalous things they were doing
  • Setting up a Plex Server - Learn how to run your own plex server and join with your friends to create your own private Netflix amongst each other
  • American Girl Doll Cookbooks - Get a rundown of the American Girl historic doll cookbooks
  • Legal and Financial Difficulties of the Cannabis Industry - Learn about the challenges that the legal cannabis market has and what issues need to be overcome
  • How to Be a Playwright (and not tear your hair out) - Learn about the craft of theater and what it takes to produce a show
  • Cock Rings and Penis Pumps - See a live demonstration and learn all about these pleasure-enhancing cock accessories

Join in on the fun. Either make a presentation or just come to the show. And if you really want to come or present and can't afford the ticket, just reach out. :)

Official Ticketing page here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/elegantlykinky/1531975


Tickets for May - Mistress Zeneca's Playtime Munch - May Flower Decor

Thursday, May 8th, 2025 - 7pm to Midnight - $23 per person

We're emphasizing affordability and social connection with the Playtime Munch in our brand new location in the Port Richmond area of Philadelphia. The event page has all the details, rules, and other info you'll need to attend. Buy your tickets on the Official Ticketing page.

Official Ticketing and Info Page: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/elegantlykinky/1638646

Fetlife Event page: https://fetlife.com/events/1738655

Thank you for excitement about the upcoming events. Read the event page and if you have any more questions, reach out to Mistress Zeneca on Fetlife (ElegantlyKinky).

Welcome! I'm Mistress Zeneca

Party Planner and Set Decorator in the Philadelphia area. Proprietor of 'Cherry Noir', ElegantlyKinky Pop-Up Parties, 'Mistress Zeneca's Playtime Munch', and High Protocol dinners. Check out the latest news and sign up for my newsletter. Happiness is happiness shared! Enjoy some unique events and make some new friends.

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